Les Henson
When we have caused harm to a friend, the path to reconciliation can be a daunting one, fraught with uncertainty and emotional turmoil. The damage inflicted by our words or actions can create a deep chasm between us, like a vast and treacherous ravine. The longer we remain estranged, the more challenging it becomes to rebuild the relationship, as the barriers between us can seem insurmountable, like a gate locked with unyielding bars.
We must approach the situation with the utmost care and sensitivity to mend the relationship. It is essential to demonstrate patience, humility, and a willingness to listen and understand the other person's feelings. We must put aside our egos and acknowledge the pain we have caused, expressing genuine remorse for any harm inflicted.
Rebuilding trust and closeness takes time and effort. It is not enough to apologise; we must take concrete steps to show our friends that we are committed to making things right. We must be consistent in our actions, demonstrating that we value their feelings and are willing to make changes to avoid repeating the same mistakes. We must also be willing to extend grace and forgiveness, recognising that healing takes time.
Navigating the path towards reconciliation is a complex and challenging journey that requires persistence, empathy, and genuine effort. It can be a journey filled with moments of doubt and uncertainty, but if we approach it with the right mindset and a willingness to learn, we can overcome the divide and restore the friendship to its former glory.
Proverbs 18:9 says:
"An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city.
Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars."
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